A Tale of Two People (letting you in a bit to my marriage ...)

a weekly breathe question

Though Nate (eventually) stopped creating piles we affectionately called “holding places” in corners of the house and now has the same wipe-the-counters, put-away-the-trinkets bedtime routine as me, there are some things twenty years of life together haven’t changed.

We both run on time. We both love rhythms—we both like systems. We grew up together in b…