Marriage: five, ten, fifteen, twenty+ years out ... {and a book rec}

a video with Nate and Sara

Life is shaping up to look like waves of trials interrupted by surprising respite. I’m unsure if I’ll give that same description ten years from now, but today I see that the ease I once imagined that would mark my days is … not so. Sure, I get interrupted by surprise islands of reprieve, but it isn’t my norm.

Something I didn’t expect 20 years ago was th…