What do you do with what you just cannot have?

I went away last weekend with Nate to the west coast, and we found the little girl in me again.

We rode bikes along the Pacific, took long walks, and read for hours. It’s been a season of floundering for us as we face some hardships in our lives — floundering longer than we’d like to without a map.

(Though we’re starting to see there is value in flounde…