What is one of the biggest hiccups in your marriage?

(Gulp.) Welcome to the ring. Yes, we used both “hiccup” and “biggest” in the same sentence. Some say the phrase “death by a thousand papercuts” … and, in marriage, we’ve found that some of the small grievances, repeated over time without acknowledgment or evaluation, become big. Hence the question.

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